I live in Oregon, just about 30 miles from the magic belt of ‘Totality’ so the eclipse stuff has been big here. Everyone has been talking about it. People gathered together to get closer, whether in a campsite or a festival. People all over the country made a special effort to be in it and see it. That’s a big change!
Centuries ago a solar eclipse was a message from the Gods, and not a fun one! the sky goes dark, the sun disappears and is left this weird ring around it. The stars in the heavens shine in the day time. The animals behave oddly. “Wow! Scary stuff. We’d better sacrifice a few virgins before this gets worse!”
It was a big, scary event. It made no sense. There was no ‘science’ about it. No one knew anything for sure. Some folks made up things, and they were mostly fear based. After all, these were generally tough times, what with plagues, droughts, and no plumbing.
And then along came science. Well, actually science came along, and humans in general resisted it. Hmm… that sounds familiar, doesn’t it? Around 500 b.c. some folks were beginning to embrace the idea that eclipses might be a natural phenomena. Edmund Halley and some others were very sure about that by 1715 a.d.
Today we lean toward it, instead of away — because we know what it really is: the moon crossing in front of our view of the sun. And those who ventured to see it in totality report it was amazing, emotional, and wonderful.
“Okay, lovely” you say: “What has that got to do with money?”
Well besides the fact that people are willing ‘spend’ a bunch of both time and money to go see the eclipse in all it’s glory, there is a lovely metaphor in this event.
What’s the most taboo topic in our culture? What’s the thing your parents used everyday and never actually taught you about? What’s that thing that it feels like everyone else has figured out, and you are just clueless about? What is the most bewildering, mysterious, and scary commodity on earth? Money!
For most people, the real problem with money isn’t money, it’s what we make up about the stuff. We often treat it as if it was an evil entity trying to keep us from our good — a spirit or god perhaps? We act as if it has a will of it’s own, like it somehow magically disappears or keeps us from our dreams.
The real issue is that we look at money as a weird, mysterious, almost mystical thing that we just don’t have the alchemical wisdom to decipher. We align with the taboo about the subject that our parents and ancestors have held for so long. It stems from the pile of ideas like:
- The only people who talk about money are greedy people
- Rich people aren’t as nice as poor people
- You have to work really hard and you will still never make any money
These ideas limit us, and frankly aren’t the TRUTH. They are possibilities, but they aren’t absolute truths. What these thoughts actually do is keep you from actually looking at your money, noticing what you are doing and not doing with it, and changing your thinking and actions about it.
Money will tell you exactly what you are doing with it, if you just look. And it is you that are making the choices around your money. Money doesn’t actually cause things, it just reflects what you are choosing.
So how can you look at your money more like the modern day Solar Eclipse experience? Do you need special glasses (perhaps a bookkeeper?) to help you see what is going on? Can you think about it as a natural result of the Moon moving across the sun (you spending more than you make?) instead the will of an angry god?
How can money become the thing you actually want to spend time with and look at? How can you eclipse your past around money?
Shell Tain, The Untangler
If you’d like to chat more about your own money eclipse possibilities , just give me a call at 503-258-1630 or check out my website at www.sensiblecoaching.com.